Share Your Story & Support Research
Understanding Why We Stay, What Helps Us Leave, and How We Heal
Introduction
Every relationship has a story. Some are full of connection and growth, while others reveal patterns of harm, silence, or survival. This relationship survey is part of a research effort aimed at better understanding the realities of toxic relationships and abusive relationships, exploring why individuals stay, what factors lead to change, and which supports are effective on the path to healing.
✨ Confidentiality: Your responses are completely confidential and will only be used for research purposes. We are not asking for your name. The only identifying information collected is an email address, which will not be shared and will only be used to confirm your survey submission.
There are no right or wrong answers, only your truth. By sharing your experiences, you contribute to a larger picture that can inform resources, support systems, and education for others who may be living through what you once did in toxic or abusive relationships.
If at any point you feel uncomfortable, you may skip a question or stop the survey. Your well-being comes first.
Before You Begin
If you are in immediate danger, please call 911 (U.S.) or your local emergency number. For confidential support in the U.S., you can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788.
The Survey
Please answer as openly as you feel comfortable. Your story matters.
Closing Note
Thank you for taking the time to share. Even if it feels small, your contribution adds to a growing body of knowledge that can help break cycles of harm and create stronger pathways to healing.
Why This Matters
Toxic relationships affect people from every background. By sharing your story, you help uncover the hidden reasons people stay, the moments that shift everything, and the supports that truly make a difference.
Resources
U.S. National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
Text START to 88788
thehotline.org